I need my indie book formatted and distributed

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Hello. I'm in the process of getting my second book ready to publish. I currently have one book available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble, but with this one, I'd like to reach a wider audience. I'm not sure if I should work with IngramSpark or PublishDrive, or one of the others, but I'm finding the process confusing.
I'd like to hire a freelancer who can not only format my book (print and digital) but who can also navigate the indie publishing process for me on one of these sites. I'm the creative type, not technically inclined, and I feel the process would go much smoother with an experienced freelancer who can take the mental load off.
Please be experienced, patient, and willing to convey information literally and directly. I'm autistic and have a learning disability, so I need someone who can work with that and be willing to be very specific, explain what you need from me step by step, and be willing to answer questions.
I'm saying this up front now because I've worked with a few freelancers on here who are good at what they do but don't know how to communicate with me in a way I can understand. I know this will limit the number of people who apply to the project, but I think that will be best for both of us in the long run.
Thank you!
Jaime